"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Performance anxiety?

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Hey guys, wondered if you guys could help me out. Whenever I seem to be making out with my girlfriend, when we undress, I lose my erection. I mean, I'm fine in the build up ie. dry humping, handjob. But it just goes down when we're in the buff. Any guys got any experience with this? I'm thinking it's just nervousness because she's my first and no ones seen me naked before. Btw we're both virgins.

Any help would be appreciated
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Learn to chill the **** out.
Have her turn you on more.
Just extend the foreplay till you're good to go.
Ive only had this happen to me once. Only thing I could link it to was masturbating/porn.
 
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Thanks for the replys guys. I used to watch porn and masturbate every day, I haven't watched porn in around 40 days and I've cut back on masturbation to 2-3x a week. Having done a search on here I've found that for others it was mainly nerves which I think it is in my case
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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