"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Performance anxiety?

Leeds_Lad_Dom

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Hey guys, wondered if you guys could help me out. Whenever I seem to be making out with my girlfriend, when we undress, I lose my erection. I mean, I'm fine in the build up ie. dry humping, handjob. But it just goes down when we're in the buff. Any guys got any experience with this? I'm thinking it's just nervousness because she's my first and no ones seen me naked before. Btw we're both virgins.

Any help would be appreciated
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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Learn to chill the **** out.
Have her turn you on more.
Just extend the foreplay till you're good to go.
Ive only had this happen to me once. Only thing I could link it to was masturbating/porn.
 

Leeds_Lad_Dom

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Thanks for the replys guys. I used to watch porn and masturbate every day, I haven't watched porn in around 40 days and I've cut back on masturbation to 2-3x a week. Having done a search on here I've found that for others it was mainly nerves which I think it is in my case
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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