"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Performance anxiety?

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Hey guys, wondered if you guys could help me out. Whenever I seem to be making out with my girlfriend, when we undress, I lose my erection. I mean, I'm fine in the build up ie. dry humping, handjob. But it just goes down when we're in the buff. Any guys got any experience with this? I'm thinking it's just nervousness because she's my first and no ones seen me naked before. Btw we're both virgins.

Any help would be appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Learn to chill the **** out.
Have her turn you on more.
Just extend the foreplay till you're good to go.
Ive only had this happen to me once. Only thing I could link it to was masturbating/porn.
 
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Thanks for the replys guys. I used to watch porn and masturbate every day, I haven't watched porn in around 40 days and I've cut back on masturbation to 2-3x a week. Having done a search on here I've found that for others it was mainly nerves which I think it is in my case
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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