You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
One time I had this chick who was super smart and rationalistic (bad). We were at my place, we hadn't had sex yet, and every time I made a move she'd ask "why are you doing that?" bla bla bla bla. She did this for TWO HOURS until I finally got all of her clothes off. But I was so turned off by it that I couldn't get an erection. I maintained frame by telling her that she had to do better. And I licked her p*ssy like a god. Her legs were completely vertical, shaking like crazy, and she was screaming louder than I've ever heard. Then I kicked her out when I wanted to be done. She definitely wanted to come back haha.
Google for all day chemist. The generic is called ceebis. We have a trade agreement with Switzerland and Germany for medications where if they are ok with it, then so are we. Companies in India ship through those countries as intermediaries.
Nah, she sucked my d*ck before I went down on her. I fvcked her the next time. You just gotta deal with this stuff with virgins. The town's public property might not have this issue, but I'm not so sure I want that.
Got a doctor to prescribe it to me but the pills are 50 mg and too small to split.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
fwiw I would still get a pill cutter for a couple bucks and start with just 25 mg.
No like these pills are tiny but they are 50 mg.
Yeah well, yesterday I experimented with viagra for the sake of it. Had it an hour after a heavy dinner, literally nothing! They say you are supposed to take it on an empty stomach.
Get Cialis, can take whenever, works great
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You shouldn't need that. These are crutches. I am mid 40s and I have zero need for this
I absolutely concur. There should be a doctors visit planned out if this is true. I’m taking C but I also have an endocrinologist booked in less than two weeks. Nothing is a bigger priority to me at the moment save for the kids.