Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
One time I had this chick who was super smart and rationalistic (bad). We were at my place, we hadn't had sex yet, and every time I made a move she'd ask "why are you doing that?" bla bla bla bla. She did this for TWO HOURS until I finally got all of her clothes off. But I was so turned off by it that I couldn't get an erection. I maintained frame by telling her that she had to do better. And I licked her p*ssy like a god. Her legs were completely vertical, shaking like crazy, and she was screaming louder than I've ever heard. Then I kicked her out when I wanted to be done. She definitely wanted to come back haha.
Google for all day chemist. The generic is called ceebis. We have a trade agreement with Switzerland and Germany for medications where if they are ok with it, then so are we. Companies in India ship through those countries as intermediaries.
Nah, she sucked my d*ck before I went down on her. I fvcked her the next time. You just gotta deal with this stuff with virgins. The town's public property might not have this issue, but I'm not so sure I want that.
Got a doctor to prescribe it to me but the pills are 50 mg and too small to split.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fwiw I would still get a pill cutter for a couple bucks and start with just 25 mg.
No like these pills are tiny but they are 50 mg.
Yeah well, yesterday I experimented with viagra for the sake of it. Had it an hour after a heavy dinner, literally nothing! They say you are supposed to take it on an empty stomach.
Get Cialis, can take whenever, works great
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You shouldn't need that. These are crutches. I am mid 40s and I have zero need for this
I absolutely concur. There should be a doctors visit planned out if this is true. I’m taking C but I also have an endocrinologist booked in less than two weeks. Nothing is a bigger priority to me at the moment save for the kids.