"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pycnogenol is also a great alternative and it has the added benefit of being a strong antioxidant. The downsides is that it can cause stomach cramps for some people. You can mix it with agamantine or citruline.

The alternative is GLPC. Very effective form of carnitine which relaxes the blood vessels.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The loss of frame around the loss of an erection could lead to the loss of the chick.... I got rejected after sex with my 2nd. I lost my erection, and then showed my vulnerability with it, which instantly turned her off. My gut told me this isn't good. I KNEW she was going to reject me the next day..... Sure enough......It was the best thing that could have happened though.... Led to me becoming red pilled.
One time I had this chick who was super smart and rationalistic (bad). We were at my place, we hadn't had sex yet, and every time I made a move she'd ask "why are you doing that?" bla bla bla bla. She did this for TWO HOURS until I finally got all of her clothes off. But I was so turned off by it that I couldn't get an erection. I maintained frame by telling her that she had to do better. And I licked her p*ssy like a god. Her legs were completely vertical, shaking like crazy, and she was screaming louder than I've ever heard. Then I kicked her out when I wanted to be done. She definitely wanted to come back haha.
 

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yeah but it seems like you can't get cialis without a prescription though
Google for all day chemist. The generic is called ceebis. We have a trade agreement with Switzerland and Germany for medications where if they are ok with it, then so are we. Companies in India ship through those countries as intermediaries.
 

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So she had all the pleasure while you didn't? Did she repay the favor? Did you fvck her another time? Or you were the Jonah Hill in a movie where there girls says "it is true, guys like you do know how to suck puzzy" and she never returned the favor?
Nah, she sucked my d*ck before I went down on her. I fvcked her the next time. You just gotta deal with this stuff with virgins. The town's public property might not have this issue, but I'm not so sure I want that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You need to shift your mindset that instead of being nervous you aren't going to perform, you have to look at her like prey and you are the hungry lion and you are going to ravage her to within an inch of her life.

When I get a woman in the bedroom, I KNOW it will be one of the best experiences of her life beyond a shadow of a doubt.
 

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You need to shift your mindset that instead of being nervous you aren't going to perform, you have to look at her like prey and you are the hungry lion and you are going to ravage her to within an inch of her life.

When I get a woman in the bedroom, I KNOW it will be one of the best experiences of her life beyond a shadow of a doubt.
Yeah well, yesterday I experimented with viagra for the sake of it. Had it an hour after a heavy dinner, literally nothing! They say you are supposed to take it on an empty stomach.
 

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Yeah well, yesterday I experimented with viagra for the sake of it. Had it an hour after a heavy dinner, literally nothing! They say you are supposed to take it on an empty stomach.
Get Cialis, can take whenever, works great
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah well, yesterday I experimented with viagra for the sake of it. Had it an hour after a heavy dinner, literally nothing! They say you are supposed to take it on an empty stomach.
You shouldn't need that. These are crutches. I am mid 40s and I have zero need for this
 

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You shouldn't need that. These are crutches. I am mid 40s and I have zero need for this
I absolutely concur. There should be a doctors visit planned out if this is true. I’m taking C but I also have an endocrinologist booked in less than two weeks. Nothing is a bigger priority to me at the moment save for the kids.
 
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