"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Perfect 10 or what?
- Thread starter Komodo
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
bbestar
Banned
selena 5.6 at best
adrianna lima 6.3...
(with some better pics from mr original i bump the lima to a 9.1)
Thank you Captain obvious
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
I'd do them both at the same time.
Remember, 10's and 9's are a matter of opinion. While he may give the girl a perfect 10 (exactly what he looks for), some of you will give her a 9, and I'll give her a 9.5 (I don't like her angry look at the bottom). And some of you are just harsh judgers and probably don't get laid often with standards like that. "Your about a 3.5... And your friend is a perfect 4".
Yeah, it's great to have standards but when you're rating girls like this that low, something's definatly wrong with your standards. The only girls that fit your standards probably only appear in adult cartoons/comic books/video games/their not real!
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Yeah, I'd hump her. But seriously I'm tired of you guys posting chicks that have porn sites, post pictures of hotties that YOU know and not whack off to
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mroriginal
Banned
Yeah sure I bet you can find a hotter chick than her in virginia,You are so full of sh*t.
Here are some more pics I found of of her
http://www.vnn.vn/dataimages/original/images458778_AM_AdrianaLima3.jpg
http://www.corriere.it/Media/Foto/2002/11_Novembre/19/VICTORIA550_446.jpg
http://www.strangecelebrities.com/images/content/108482.jpg
http://u.univision.com/contentroot/uol/art/images/mujer/mod/2005/05/adriana_lima3.jpg
http://www.palmbeachpost.com/photo/content/accent/photos/angel/35.jpg
http://blog.kordix.com/extremegardening/images/1_adriana_lima.jpg
http://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/partypictures/2004/07_08_04/images/luca/LimaandModel.jpg
http://www.w3sh.com/archives/HQ-adriana_lima-thumb.jpg
bbestar
Banned
LOL:crackup:
mroriginal
Banned
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
mroriginal
Banned
http://www.hollywoodtuna.com/photo.php?id=victoria_secret_show_7_big
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodlgvw/V237741.jpg
www.phat-tgp.com/celebs/pics/adrianalima/index.html
mroriginal
Banned
I googled up her name and the word interview.this is what I found.
http://www.superiorpics.com/adriana_lima/interview.html
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Love? That sounds like AFC talk to me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mroriginal
Banned
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Komodo
Master Don Juan
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.