I guess alot of girls really dig for gayish looking pretty boys. I've noticed that big, buffed out guys with average face are getting mid-7's to low 9, but justine timberlake clones (skinny, have pretty face & hair) are getting mid 8's to high 9's. Are these guys voting for themselves or what? And guys with facial piercings aren't getting high scores for some reason.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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No thats just how it is.... A pretty face with a nice toned body is better than a buffyup muscular dude with an average face.
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I always vote high for the ugly ones and really low for the attractive ones just to kill their massive egos! I expect and I hope there are more people like me who do the same.
Beauty is in the eye of the beeholder.
Beauty is in the eye of the beeholder.
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my ex-roommate uses a fake pic on hot or not. pathetic.
shes fat, obese and she uses a pic of some skinny blonde.
so watch out
shes fat, obese and she uses a pic of some skinny blonde.
so watch out
I landed the last girl I dated on hotornot, and I found the whole photo thing voodoo science.
My advice: ASK A GIRL.
I asked my Sis if she had any pics of me, and she sent me one I thought was awful -- I looked like a total nerd. Put it up, and got a 9.8. Girls are weird, dude.
My advice: ASK A GIRL.
I asked my Sis if she had any pics of me, and she sent me one I thought was awful -- I looked like a total nerd. Put it up, and got a 9.8. Girls are weird, dude.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I know a girl who is now only into dating tall muscular guys, she even says the face doesnt count much, she just likes that kind of body, goes out with them for a couple of dates and loses interest in them. I always tought the face counted more if you aren't incredibly skinny, but this girl made me this confidence that many girls think and dont confess.