"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Online DJ

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I guess alot of girls really dig for gayish looking pretty boys. I've noticed that big, buffed out guys with average face are getting mid-7's to low 9, but justine timberlake clones (skinny, have pretty face & hair) are getting mid 8's to high 9's. Are these guys voting for themselves or what? And guys with facial piercings aren't getting high scores for some reason.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kineti[C]harm

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No thats just how it is.... A pretty face with a nice toned body is better than a buffyup muscular dude with an average face.
 

alboh

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I landed the last girl I dated on hotornot, and I found the whole photo thing voodoo science.

My advice: ASK A GIRL.

I asked my Sis if she had any pics of me, and she sent me one I thought was awful -- I looked like a total nerd. Put it up, and got a 9.8. Girls are weird, dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ice Cold

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The whole idea of hotornot is ridiculous.

It's a PHOTO contest. A photo doesn't reflect how attrective you are in person.

Ask clooney - he knows this stuff first person.
 

Trance

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I know a girl who is now only into dating tall muscular guys, she even says the face doesnt count much, she just likes that kind of body, goes out with them for a couple of dates and loses interest in them. I always tought the face counted more if you aren't incredibly skinny, but this girl made me this confidence that many girls think and dont confess.
 
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