"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Online DJ

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I guess alot of girls really dig for gayish looking pretty boys. I've noticed that big, buffed out guys with average face are getting mid-7's to low 9, but justine timberlake clones (skinny, have pretty face & hair) are getting mid 8's to high 9's. Are these guys voting for themselves or what? And guys with facial piercings aren't getting high scores for some reason.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kineti[C]harm

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No thats just how it is.... A pretty face with a nice toned body is better than a buffyup muscular dude with an average face.
 

alboh

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I landed the last girl I dated on hotornot, and I found the whole photo thing voodoo science.

My advice: ASK A GIRL.

I asked my Sis if she had any pics of me, and she sent me one I thought was awful -- I looked like a total nerd. Put it up, and got a 9.8. Girls are weird, dude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ice Cold

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The whole idea of hotornot is ridiculous.

It's a PHOTO contest. A photo doesn't reflect how attrective you are in person.

Ask clooney - he knows this stuff first person.
 

Trance

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I know a girl who is now only into dating tall muscular guys, she even says the face doesnt count much, she just likes that kind of body, goes out with them for a couple of dates and loses interest in them. I always tought the face counted more if you aren't incredibly skinny, but this girl made me this confidence that many girls think and dont confess.
 
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