"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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People don't like me ..

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People just don't like me but I get girls .. but I want to get along with people too.. Advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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For every person that dislikes me, one likes me and one has no opinion of me. That's life, get over it.
 

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Those who don't like me aren't worth my time, they tend to be stupid and/or boring people anyway.
 

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Yeah.. The above attitudes work to a degree but lets face it in this life success isn't always what you know its who you know so someone teach me how to get along with the average joe...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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EvilAgenda said:
how does this relate to your life?

I don't see the point of getting along with the average joe, unless he offers value to your life.
Exactly.

Maybe I'm just lucky but the people whom can actually do something for me tend to like me, especially if I can do something for them in return. Those who don't like me are generally irrelevant and I've noticed that they tend to be unambitious people who are going nowhere in life. Like attracts like after all.
 

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cola said:
People just don't like me but I get girls .. but I want to get along with people too.. Advice?
If you want friends, then just focus more on showing yourself friendly to other people. If you think you're coming across as too cool, try to be more outgoing to those who might not be as cool as you. Also, start looking for mutual points of interest that you may share with other people, then start conversations with them about what you KNOW they already care about. People usually have no problems talking to you if it gives them an opportunity to share their opinion on something.

But the most important thing to ask yourself is THIS:

Do you like YOURSELF?

If you do, then what other people think about you should always be LESS important to you than that.
 

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Me too.

Remember how much silent contempt and green envy you had for the so called "jerks" getting all the spots, girls, fun & respect back then?

Kind of like the same thing!

Get used to it. More importantly, enjoy it.
 
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