"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
People don't like me ..
- Thread starter cola
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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EvilAgenda
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I don't see the point of getting along with the average joe, unless he offers value to your life.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Exactly.EvilAgenda said:
Maybe I'm just lucky but the people whom can actually do something for me tend to like me, especially if I can do something for them in return. Those who don't like me are generally irrelevant and I've noticed that they tend to be unambitious people who are going nowhere in life. Like attracts like after all.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
If you want friends, then just focus more on showing yourself friendly to other people. If you think you're coming across as too cool, try to be more outgoing to those who might not be as cool as you. Also, start looking for mutual points of interest that you may share with other people, then start conversations with them about what you KNOW they already care about. People usually have no problems talking to you if it gives them an opportunity to share their opinion on something.cola said:
But the most important thing to ask yourself is THIS:
Do you like YOURSELF?
If you do, then what other people think about you should always be LESS important to you than that.
coochieman
Don Juan
Remember how much silent contempt and green envy you had for the so called "jerks" getting all the spots, girls, fun & respect back then?
Kind of like the same thing!
Get used to it. More importantly, enjoy it.