Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Paying out her boyfriend for not being good enough

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anile8

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i fuked up today soo bad. i used to like this chick (and i guess i still kinda do). We were talking in the library and the conversation goes:
(after about 2mins of chattin)

Me: So why are you goin out with Chris?
her: What?
Me: YOur a beautiful girl you can do so much better than him
her: Wha... where did this come from?
Me: Why dont you go out with some1 like me or my friend?
her: i used to like your friend
so the conversation goes on but we loose track of her bf and talk about other stuff.
So what should i have done , or do to improve the situation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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That DOES sound pretty bad.

You shouldn't have been TOO MUCH straight to the point. It sounds like... like... a robat, maybe?

She says one thing.. then in less than half a second you reply knowing what she will say, saying what you PLANNED out to say.

I'm finally realizing (without testing) that plans won't work out... it will make your speech sound horrible... is THAT what you did? Did you plan out what you were going to say before you talked about why you and your friend are better than her boyfriend?

Reply back.
 
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A few things wrong...

1. Avoiding using the word why, and replace it with what.

2. You are insulting the guy she is dating, hope she doesn't tell him.

3. You're logic doesn't make sense, so what if shes a beautiful girl and dating him?

4. Called her a beautiful girl.

5. You came on way too fast.

6. Why would you suggest for the girl to go out with your friend?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shark

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Not only was that an ******* thing to do, you sucked at it and made yourself look like a dumb ****. Read the DJ Bible, and don't me to big of an *******..us guys are like brothers. Treat it like that.
 
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Smooth Player 056

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Re: Re: Paying out her boyfriend for not being good enough

Originally posted by Thraxeh
read the dj bible.

:rolleyes:
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have u even read the dj bible? it has no answers to this exact circumstace
 
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