"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Paying out her boyfriend for not being good enough

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anile8

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i fuked up today soo bad. i used to like this chick (and i guess i still kinda do). We were talking in the library and the conversation goes:
(after about 2mins of chattin)

Me: So why are you goin out with Chris?
her: What?
Me: YOur a beautiful girl you can do so much better than him
her: Wha... where did this come from?
Me: Why dont you go out with some1 like me or my friend?
her: i used to like your friend
so the conversation goes on but we loose track of her bf and talk about other stuff.
So what should i have done , or do to improve the situation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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That DOES sound pretty bad.

You shouldn't have been TOO MUCH straight to the point. It sounds like... like... a robat, maybe?

She says one thing.. then in less than half a second you reply knowing what she will say, saying what you PLANNED out to say.

I'm finally realizing (without testing) that plans won't work out... it will make your speech sound horrible... is THAT what you did? Did you plan out what you were going to say before you talked about why you and your friend are better than her boyfriend?

Reply back.
 
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A few things wrong...

1. Avoiding using the word why, and replace it with what.

2. You are insulting the guy she is dating, hope she doesn't tell him.

3. You're logic doesn't make sense, so what if shes a beautiful girl and dating him?

4. Called her a beautiful girl.

5. You came on way too fast.

6. Why would you suggest for the girl to go out with your friend?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not only was that an ******* thing to do, you sucked at it and made yourself look like a dumb ****. Read the DJ Bible, and don't me to big of an *******..us guys are like brothers. Treat it like that.
 
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Re: Re: Paying out her boyfriend for not being good enough

Originally posted by Thraxeh
read the dj bible.

:rolleyes:
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have u even read the dj bible? it has no answers to this exact circumstace
 
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