"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Paul Janka - Day Game legend - Video proof
- Thread starter evansblue
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
he makes cold approaching look fun. He acts the way I do when I'm drunk in the club, but better. A LOT better. They don't expect it on the street, which makes it alot harder imo.
I wanna get to his level where i can do that. Perfect cold approaching. And he has a damn straight face when he walks back to the camera. All business.
I wanna get to his level where i can do that. Perfect cold approaching. And he has a damn straight face when he walks back to the camera. All business.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
business
first the guy looks like a male model
second his videos are rigged! the guy s running a business don t forget
first the guy looks like a male model
second his videos are rigged! the guy s running a business don t forget
He looks like a nerd to me.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....416168547299.186546.531042299&type=1&theater
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....416168547299.186546.531042299&type=1&theater
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
ff
the guy s no sense of fun or humor
the guy s no sense of fun or humor
That was so creepy and obnoxious. She was very average looking so I'm sure she was flattered by the attention. Plus I see no proof that they went on a date.
I imagine most women would get irritated by him very quickly if this is how he behaves, especially if he keeps imposing himself the way he did on that phone call. He's like a snakeoil salesman and a lot of girls will give up their number just to get him off their case, but I expect majority of them will flake as soon as they have time to think.
I imagine most women would get irritated by him very quickly if this is how he behaves, especially if he keeps imposing himself the way he did on that phone call. He's like a snakeoil salesman and a lot of girls will give up their number just to get him off their case, but I expect majority of them will flake as soon as they have time to think.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Agreed.Jariel said:
She started giving him warmer vibes towards the end, but I'm sure once she walked away and had time to process what just happened she probably spent the rest of that phone call telling her mother how much a creep he was. I admire his fearlessness to approach, but that's about it. I don't think he's a PUA god by any means, he's simply gotten over approach anxiety. This guy needs to get into sales.
-Scars
Scars said:
Right. Paul has gotten over the fear of approaching and getting rejected. He understands picking up women is a numbers game. When i go out to the clubs I will holler at like 40 women and if im lucky i'll get like 15 numbers. I dont care if I got rejected the other 25 times. I forget the faces of those women as soon as I walk away.
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First off, she looks like she can't wait to get away from him.Scars said:
Secondly, notice there's that moment when she looks directly into the camera. She knows she's being filmed. I'm not sure what that means.
Third, the title of that YouTube page is so fanboy juvenile:
PAULIE JANKA TEARING THAT **** UP!!!! NUMBER CLOSE!!! KING OF PUA!!
Umm, okay.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3kA1-BI5V5A&feature=related
Another video. That girl is an easy HB 9. Some of you are missing the point here. Whether he slept with these two women is irrelevant. He can go up to any girl, remain calm and run smooth game. So while he might not nab every one (nobody does), he still reels in plenty through his approaches.
Another video. That girl is an easy HB 9. Some of you are missing the point here. Whether he slept with these two women is irrelevant. He can go up to any girl, remain calm and run smooth game. So while he might not nab every one (nobody does), he still reels in plenty through his approaches.
ALPHAROMEO
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janka = alpharomeo
doubtful indeed as my ENGLISH leaves to be desired
as regards asking for directions JANKA acknowledged he got the idea from me !! sort of flattering
janka = alpharomeo
doubtful indeed as my ENGLISH leaves to be desired
as regards asking for directions JANKA acknowledged he got the idea from me !! sort of flattering
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But what's the point in doing that if he doesn't get laid or even a date? If I just want to fill my phone with numbers I could use a phone directory.evansblue said:
That's exactly what I have been doing for some time now, but my obnoxious behaviour and trying too hard is exactly what's been driving girls away and is something I've been trying to change.n00bPimp said:
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
I couldn't help but notice the way he holds his arms. I used to hold my arms just like that when I was having an oral exam back in high school.evansblue said:
DonJuan_DeRosco
Don Juan
Haha!zekko said:
I can't help but like you ALPHAROMEO, even though I think most of your advice is nonsense.ALPHAROMEO said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.