"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Paul Janka - Day Game legend - Video proof
- Thread starter evansblue
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
he makes cold approaching look fun. He acts the way I do when I'm drunk in the club, but better. A LOT better. They don't expect it on the street, which makes it alot harder imo.
I wanna get to his level where i can do that. Perfect cold approaching. And he has a damn straight face when he walks back to the camera. All business.
I wanna get to his level where i can do that. Perfect cold approaching. And he has a damn straight face when he walks back to the camera. All business.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
business
first the guy looks like a male model
second his videos are rigged! the guy s running a business don t forget
first the guy looks like a male model
second his videos are rigged! the guy s running a business don t forget
He looks like a nerd to me.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....416168547299.186546.531042299&type=1&theater
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....416168547299.186546.531042299&type=1&theater
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
ff
the guy s no sense of fun or humor
the guy s no sense of fun or humor
That was so creepy and obnoxious. She was very average looking so I'm sure she was flattered by the attention. Plus I see no proof that they went on a date.
I imagine most women would get irritated by him very quickly if this is how he behaves, especially if he keeps imposing himself the way he did on that phone call. He's like a snakeoil salesman and a lot of girls will give up their number just to get him off their case, but I expect majority of them will flake as soon as they have time to think.
I imagine most women would get irritated by him very quickly if this is how he behaves, especially if he keeps imposing himself the way he did on that phone call. He's like a snakeoil salesman and a lot of girls will give up their number just to get him off their case, but I expect majority of them will flake as soon as they have time to think.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Agreed.Jariel said:
She started giving him warmer vibes towards the end, but I'm sure once she walked away and had time to process what just happened she probably spent the rest of that phone call telling her mother how much a creep he was. I admire his fearlessness to approach, but that's about it. I don't think he's a PUA god by any means, he's simply gotten over approach anxiety. This guy needs to get into sales.
-Scars
Scars said:
Right. Paul has gotten over the fear of approaching and getting rejected. He understands picking up women is a numbers game. When i go out to the clubs I will holler at like 40 women and if im lucky i'll get like 15 numbers. I dont care if I got rejected the other 25 times. I forget the faces of those women as soon as I walk away.
zekko
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First off, she looks like she can't wait to get away from him.Scars said:
Secondly, notice there's that moment when she looks directly into the camera. She knows she's being filmed. I'm not sure what that means.
Third, the title of that YouTube page is so fanboy juvenile:
PAULIE JANKA TEARING THAT **** UP!!!! NUMBER CLOSE!!! KING OF PUA!!
Umm, okay.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3kA1-BI5V5A&feature=related
Another video. That girl is an easy HB 9. Some of you are missing the point here. Whether he slept with these two women is irrelevant. He can go up to any girl, remain calm and run smooth game. So while he might not nab every one (nobody does), he still reels in plenty through his approaches.
Another video. That girl is an easy HB 9. Some of you are missing the point here. Whether he slept with these two women is irrelevant. He can go up to any girl, remain calm and run smooth game. So while he might not nab every one (nobody does), he still reels in plenty through his approaches.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
to ZEKKO
janka = alpharomeo
doubtful indeed as my ENGLISH leaves to be desired
as regards asking for directions JANKA acknowledged he got the idea from me !! sort of flattering
janka = alpharomeo
doubtful indeed as my ENGLISH leaves to be desired
as regards asking for directions JANKA acknowledged he got the idea from me !! sort of flattering
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
But what's the point in doing that if he doesn't get laid or even a date? If I just want to fill my phone with numbers I could use a phone directory.evansblue said:
That's exactly what I have been doing for some time now, but my obnoxious behaviour and trying too hard is exactly what's been driving girls away and is something I've been trying to change.n00bPimp said:
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
I couldn't help but notice the way he holds his arms. I used to hold my arms just like that when I was having an oral exam back in high school.evansblue said:
DonJuan_DeRosco
Don Juan
Haha!zekko said:
I can't help but like you ALPHAROMEO, even though I think most of your advice is nonsense.ALPHAROMEO said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.