"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PART III A - EXTERNAL GAME (PHYSICAL)

darksprezzatura

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What you say to a woman is comparatively insignificant to HOW you say it.


Studies prove that the effect of a message is 7% verbal, 38% is vocal aesthetics, tone of voice and rhythm. The rest 55% is body language, posture and presence.


Subtle guidelines:

  • Wide hand movements denote high significance to topic of conversation.
  • Open arm position denote interest.
  • Insecure or uncomfortable guys bring their hands closer to their groin or infront of them
  • When people lie they cover their face in someway or the other, nose itch, eye rub etc
  • Fake smiles don't cause wrinkle formations around cheek or eyes
  • Leg crossed away from you means she's not interested.
  • Legs crossed towards you means she is.
  • Dilated pupils are a measure of high attraction
  • Facing down, glancing down are signs of submission
  • In a group of people, people glance towards the dominant person to look for signs of approval
  • Touching leads to flight or fight response in people, kino is essential as it develops comfort and rapport to mitigate that
  • Tilting her head to a side shows interest
  • Feet pointing towards you indicate interest
  • Act oblivious to indicators of interest sometimes, she will repeat them making her think she likes you all the more
  • Mirror interest when she does that to train her to give you more interest
  • At signs of disinterest, show signs of disinterest back; chasing a woman showing disinterest is a sure way to kill attraction
  • Attention to detail is the repertoire of a skilled seducer
  • It's essential to smile in the beginning to create rapport and show positive reception of a person
  • Soon excessive smiling becomes supplicating and beta
  • Dominant people walk move slowly at a relaxed pace because they feel less threatened
  • Instead of focusing on rejection, focus on her winning you, speak slowly, if someone doesn't want to interact, next.
  • Shake hands from top to down, palm facing downwards, force the other person to shake from the bottom
  • Blow smoke upwards
  • Nod upwards
  • Look dead straight ahead, looking up is retarded
  • Smile less in comfortable known venues, smile more in uncomfortable unknown places to have the opportunity to show dominance
  • Betas smile to minimise threat projection and display compliance during jokes etc
  • Alphas smile during uncomfortable situations to display dominance
  • Hold strong eye contact when talking to someone
  • Gaze away intermittently when someone else talks
  • Never stand with hands covering the front of your body, keep them behind or wide. Being vulnerable is a sign of powerful animals, only they can afford to be vulnerable
  • Don't hold your drink too high during parties
  • Never lean forward when talking to a girl especially if she's leaning back

As a girl becomes more attracted to you, she will mirror you, remember that.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nice. I want to favourite this to look back on it later. To bad that option doesn't exist. *shrug*
 
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