i've had a few painfully bad mistakes in the past few weeks that I want to share so that anyone who has remedial game like myself can learn. What you need to remember, what i need to remember, is that everything is a test when dealing with women. So there's this girl a HB9 that I've played it cool with, she was messaging me everyday. I didn't respond everyday. She obviously wanted me. Last time I saw her at the bar in the middle of the week she invited me to a diner with her and her friends, but i was with my friends so i declined. she messages me at like 3 in the morning to ask why i didnt come. this was the best move i made. making myself unavaliable but still flirtatious. anyway, long story short. she kept on me. we were supposed to meet at a bar at 10:30... its 10:45 and i leave. Now i should have stayed gone, but i come back at around 11:15 and she walks in then. this is a elementary test that she was running on me to see if i had a sac. i came back, this is a big ****1ng mistake my friends. i just handed over my nuts. then i agreed to go to another bar with her and her friends. i can guarantee you i gave up this easy ass and that she will never try to get with me. handle your game properly, don't act like a douche like i did. it burns when you mess up an opportunity like this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
it sucks when you put forth effort to lead up to this point and then blow it in the endgame. its like chess... you can make a fatal mistake even at the end.
seems like you know what youre doing now, tho. mistakes are simply lessons learned
seems like you know what youre doing now, tho. mistakes are simply lessons learned
I think you a focusing too much on playing the game.
She has clearly shown interest in you - I think you need to focus on being a fun, cool, happy guy around her when you are around her and this other stuff won't matter. You already got past the initial cat/mouse game with her - just go for it!
She has clearly shown interest in you - I think you need to focus on being a fun, cool, happy guy around her when you are around her and this other stuff won't matter. You already got past the initial cat/mouse game with her - just go for it!