i've had a few painfully bad mistakes in the past few weeks that I want to share so that anyone who has remedial game like myself can learn. What you need to remember, what i need to remember, is that everything is a test when dealing with women. So there's this girl a HB9 that I've played it cool with, she was messaging me everyday. I didn't respond everyday. She obviously wanted me. Last time I saw her at the bar in the middle of the week she invited me to a diner with her and her friends, but i was with my friends so i declined. she messages me at like 3 in the morning to ask why i didnt come. this was the best move i made. making myself unavaliable but still flirtatious. anyway, long story short. she kept on me. we were supposed to meet at a bar at 10:30... its 10:45 and i leave. Now i should have stayed gone, but i come back at around 11:15 and she walks in then. this is a elementary test that she was running on me to see if i had a sac. i came back, this is a big ****1ng mistake my friends. i just handed over my nuts. then i agreed to go to another bar with her and her friends. i can guarantee you i gave up this easy ass and that she will never try to get with me. handle your game properly, don't act like a douche like i did. it burns when you mess up an opportunity like this.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
painful lessons
- Thread starter mountain
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
it sucks when you put forth effort to lead up to this point and then blow it in the endgame. its like chess... you can make a fatal mistake even at the end.
seems like you know what youre doing now, tho. mistakes are simply lessons learned
seems like you know what youre doing now, tho. mistakes are simply lessons learned
I think you a focusing too much on playing the game.
She has clearly shown interest in you - I think you need to focus on being a fun, cool, happy guy around her when you are around her and this other stuff won't matter. You already got past the initial cat/mouse game with her - just go for it!
She has clearly shown interest in you - I think you need to focus on being a fun, cool, happy guy around her when you are around her and this other stuff won't matter. You already got past the initial cat/mouse game with her - just go for it!