"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pain from doing dips

Master Bates

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I started doing dips a few weeks ago, but whenever I do them I get a kind of sharp pain in the middle of my chest, and sometimes it lasts for days. Is this normal? Just regular soreness from working out, or should that not be there? It's hard to tell.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doesnt exactly sound normal.

Do make sure you warm up thoroughly before doing dips, and I wouldnt go lower then your upper arms being parallel to the floor. Any lower & you're pretty much asking for an injury. Id be more worried about your shoulders, then your chest though.

Best of luck.
 

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Don't do it.

I had them, supposedly something to do with adolescents.
Persevere like I did (don't get pain now) and you'll **** up your ribs. As I've done.
 

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cuzza said:
Don't do it.

I had them, supposedly something to do with adolescents.
Persevere like I did (don't get pain now) and you'll **** up your ribs. As I've done.
What exactly did you do? I've never really heard of anyone jacking up their ribs from doing dips?

Personally, ive never had a problem with them. So long as you know when to stop your decent (upper arms parallel to the ground) you should be fine.
 

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I might be going down a little too low. I'll be conscious of that next time...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmm, I've had this exact experience. It was quite painful, to the point that I stopped doing dips, but even after that it lasted for quite a while. Maybe it does have something to do with adolescence because I was 18 at the time. I was warmed up pretty well at the time too, so I really don't know what was going on there as I don't go below parallel.
 
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