Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Me too , buddy.
Me too.
Me too.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ireland isn't poor anymore.mahon83050 said:You are 100% correct. Money and materialism don't necessarily equal happiness. Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. Poor people from Ireland, Poland and Mexico are a perfect example about the latter.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Still culturally bankrupt.dirtyvibe said:Ireland isn't poor anymore.
Thats a huge generalisation. There's plenty of fantasticly happy rich people and miserable poor people. Put it this way, I'd rather be rich and unhappy than poor and unhappy.mahon83050 said:Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. .
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
someone needs to tell these people about internet pornTantric said:The reality is that 60% of America suffers from Depression, and 20% of ALL people who are depressed try committing suicide.
It is a much bigger problem, and much more serious than people think.
he had a drug problem like 10 years ago, not sure if he still does.CanuckinSK said:That's almost unbelieveable... Wonder if drugs were involved?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
while i agree with this, lets not forget most of us have the ability to type www.amazon.com and find thousands of books written by extremely intelligent professionals in various fields that offer alternative perspectives on life. we have greater access to 'functional living resources' than ever before. sosuave sometimes being one of those resources.Tantric said:How society treats us and what it puts into our heads affects us more than we know...so it is never just about personal issues, ex GF's etc.
This is why so many males need to work on being Men first, getting their lives together, and then enjoy women as they come along.see the problem with making women the 'point' of life is that when they screw you over you start thinking 'theres no point' to life.
NEVER EVER make one thing - much less a woman - be yoru reason for living.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.