Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Me too , buddy.
Me too.
Me too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ireland isn't poor anymore.mahon83050 said:You are 100% correct. Money and materialism don't necessarily equal happiness. Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. Poor people from Ireland, Poland and Mexico are a perfect example about the latter.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Still culturally bankrupt.dirtyvibe said:Ireland isn't poor anymore.
Thats a huge generalisation. There's plenty of fantasticly happy rich people and miserable poor people. Put it this way, I'd rather be rich and unhappy than poor and unhappy.mahon83050 said:Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. .
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
someone needs to tell these people about internet pornTantric said:The reality is that 60% of America suffers from Depression, and 20% of ALL people who are depressed try committing suicide.
It is a much bigger problem, and much more serious than people think.
he had a drug problem like 10 years ago, not sure if he still does.CanuckinSK said:That's almost unbelieveable... Wonder if drugs were involved?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
while i agree with this, lets not forget most of us have the ability to type www.amazon.com and find thousands of books written by extremely intelligent professionals in various fields that offer alternative perspectives on life. we have greater access to 'functional living resources' than ever before. sosuave sometimes being one of those resources.Tantric said:How society treats us and what it puts into our heads affects us more than we know...so it is never just about personal issues, ex GF's etc.
This is why so many males need to work on being Men first, getting their lives together, and then enjoy women as they come along.see the problem with making women the 'point' of life is that when they screw you over you start thinking 'theres no point' to life.
NEVER EVER make one thing - much less a woman - be yoru reason for living.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.