Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Me too , buddy.
Me too.
Me too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ireland isn't poor anymore.mahon83050 said:You are 100% correct. Money and materialism don't necessarily equal happiness. Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. Poor people from Ireland, Poland and Mexico are a perfect example about the latter.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Still culturally bankrupt.dirtyvibe said:Ireland isn't poor anymore.
Thats a huge generalisation. There's plenty of fantasticly happy rich people and miserable poor people. Put it this way, I'd rather be rich and unhappy than poor and unhappy.mahon83050 said:Their are plenty of miserable rich people out there and happy poor people. .
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
someone needs to tell these people about internet pornTantric said:The reality is that 60% of America suffers from Depression, and 20% of ALL people who are depressed try committing suicide.
It is a much bigger problem, and much more serious than people think.
he had a drug problem like 10 years ago, not sure if he still does.CanuckinSK said:That's almost unbelieveable... Wonder if drugs were involved?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
while i agree with this, lets not forget most of us have the ability to type www.amazon.com and find thousands of books written by extremely intelligent professionals in various fields that offer alternative perspectives on life. we have greater access to 'functional living resources' than ever before. sosuave sometimes being one of those resources.Tantric said:How society treats us and what it puts into our heads affects us more than we know...so it is never just about personal issues, ex GF's etc.
This is why so many males need to work on being Men first, getting their lives together, and then enjoy women as they come along.see the problem with making women the 'point' of life is that when they screw you over you start thinking 'theres no point' to life.
NEVER EVER make one thing - much less a woman - be yoru reason for living.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.