I've been with my girlfriend for over 8 months, she says that I am over protective. This is because I get pissed off when she hugs other guys in front of me. I probably shouldn't care that she does this but I do for some reason. What should I do to not be "over protective?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Over protective?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
just chill....everybody hugs everybody these days...its no point in working up a sweat over it!
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Yeah its weird, all the girls I work with are all huggy. They hug everyone even in front of their boyfriends. Its not something to worry about man.
Just breath and think to yourself, who is she with? You, not him obviously you are superior.
Just breath and think to yourself, who is she with? You, not him obviously you are superior.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I understand why she thinks your overprotective, btw if she says your overprotective it could also mean that she wants to get with other guys (hey you can't blame her)
G_Nice_06
Don Juan
The best thing you can do is take it or break up with her. Lot of guys feel just like you do about their girls all on a another dude. Thats just life.
i dont know why but it seems like everyone hugging and i mean everyone. its kind of like a new way of saying hello. think nothing of it,now if she is holding hands,sucking another guys **** or something then there is a issue.