I've been with my girlfriend for over 8 months, she says that I am over protective. This is because I get pissed off when she hugs other guys in front of me. I probably shouldn't care that she does this but I do for some reason. What should I do to not be "over protective?
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Over protective?
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Centaurion
Master Don Juan
just chill....everybody hugs everybody these days...its no point in working up a sweat over it!
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Yeah its weird, all the girls I work with are all huggy. They hug everyone even in front of their boyfriends. Its not something to worry about man.
Just breath and think to yourself, who is she with? You, not him obviously you are superior.
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Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I understand why she thinks your overprotective, btw if she says your overprotective it could also mean that she wants to get with other guys (hey you can't blame her)
G_Nice_06
Don Juan
The best thing you can do is take it or break up with her. Lot of guys feel just like you do about their girls all on a another dude. Thats just life.
i dont know why but it seems like everyone hugging and i mean everyone. its kind of like a new way of saying hello. think nothing of it,now if she is holding hands,sucking another guys **** or something then there is a issue.