I've been with my girlfriend for over 8 months, she says that I am over protective. This is because I get pissed off when she hugs other guys in front of me. I probably shouldn't care that she does this but I do for some reason. What should I do to not be "over protective?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Over protective?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
just chill....everybody hugs everybody these days...its no point in working up a sweat over it!
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Yeah its weird, all the girls I work with are all huggy. They hug everyone even in front of their boyfriends. Its not something to worry about man.
Just breath and think to yourself, who is she with? You, not him obviously you are superior.
Just breath and think to yourself, who is she with? You, not him obviously you are superior.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I understand why she thinks your overprotective, btw if she says your overprotective it could also mean that she wants to get with other guys (hey you can't blame her)
G_Nice_06
Don Juan
The best thing you can do is take it or break up with her. Lot of guys feel just like you do about their girls all on a another dude. Thats just life.
i dont know why but it seems like everyone hugging and i mean everyone. its kind of like a new way of saying hello. think nothing of it,now if she is holding hands,sucking another guys **** or something then there is a issue.