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I give up. Getting arranged marriage with some <25 next year. Unless you are rich and have money to spend, you cannot roam around and pick up on girls. If you have day job then it's gone.
what a fukin loser. I go out 7 days a week, nearly 30, work 60 hours a week.

you just need to get out there and get your 4 inch **** suked man.
 

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Over 30 is not a useful generalization. Are you talking 30+ or 40+ or 50+ or 60+ or 70+ or....

Within any age category, the better looking and more successful you are, the better your dating results will be as well. All three are highly correlated because at the foundation of it all are good genetics, good overall health and high intelligence.
 

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Well 31 is something, 38 is something else.

The first one is a young adult, the second one is a grown man...in the first case you can hit clubs and dress casual while in the second you better hit lounges and dress sharp.
 

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Im 25 now, and it's interesting to see what I should expect when I eventually hit 30.

Some of the guys advise guys my age to start looking to lock someone down right now. But what if I still feel I have more dating/exploring to do? I get that women develop more baggage the older they get, but I won't have to date women the same age as me so what's the rush?

I personally feel like I haven't yet peaked in terms of my career, physique, or my communication skills. I might have aged a bit in the face but I'm still told I look younger than I am. I predict I'll peak around 27-28, which is when I'll start thinking of settling down.
 

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Im 25 now, and it's interesting to see what I should expect when I eventually hit 30.

Some of the guys advise guys my age to start looking to lock someone down right now. But what if I still feel I have more dating/exploring to do? I get that women develop more baggage the older they get, but I won't have to date women the same age as me so what's the rush?

I personally feel like I haven't yet peaked in terms of my career, physique, or my communication skills. I might have aged a bit in the face but I'm still told I look younger than I am. I predict I'll peak around 27-28, which is when I'll start thinking of settling down.
What I would do in your place would be bang as many as possible for the next 3-4 years then before you turn 30 find a decent girl in her early 20s and make a relationship with her.

Once you pass enough time and share enough experiences togheter, the bonding should be enough to consider to make a family.

Trust me when I was that in your mid30s you dont have girlfriends but only fvck buddies and fvck buddies with whom you split bills.

Dont get me wrong you can still play your cards later but it gets harder, most girls younger than 22 see a guy above 30 to be too old for them unless you meet them frequently outside romantic purposes...forget cold approches however.
 
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What I would do in your place would be bang as many as possible for the next 3-4 years then before you turn 30 find a decent girl in her early 20s and make a relationship with her.

Once you pass enough time and share enough experiences togheter, the bonding should be enough to consider to make a family.

Trust me when I was that in your mid30s you dont have girlfriends but only fvck buddies and fvck buddies with whom you split bills.

Dont get me wrong you can still play your cards later but it gets harder, most girls younger than 22 see a guy above 30 to be too old for them unless you meet them frequently outside romantic purposes...forget cold approches however.
Thanks for the advice.

When I become 30 I'd imagine myself being happy settling down with a girl that's even a bit older than that, like around 25-26. Maturity is pretty important for me in an LTR, if I feel like a girl is too stupid I won't be able to stand being around her for long.
 

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Thanks for the advice.

When I become 30 I'd imagine myself being happy settling down with a girl that's even a bit older than that, like around 25-26. Maturity is pretty important for me in an LTR, if I feel like a girl is too stupid I won't be able to stand being around her for long.
Maturity affects your aura and what you attract in life. It's not all about women. I would think opportunities and business and respect are easier to obtain with higher maturity.
 

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Thanks for the advice.

When I become 30 I'd imagine myself being happy settling down with a girl that's even a bit older than that, like around 25-26. Maturity is pretty important for me in an LTR, if I feel like a girl is too stupid I won't be able to stand being around her for long.
You have to balance maturity and shared experiences, the more experiences you share with a girl the stronger the bond will be which means less chances of being cheated, replaced or divorce raped.

It takes time to bond and the more experiences a girl has without you, the harder will be for you two to bond and it will take much much more.

Trust me on this, most women my age have more intimacy with their 5 years coworkers than with their 5 years husbands.
 

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Early thirties and let me put it this way to all young guys out there, if you want quality, you need to be quality. The issue with so much of this manosphere bull**** was that it said life gets better after 30 for men and you are at your peak, that is true in 2 situations:

1. You were far from peak in youth and had a troubled youth/upbringing.

2. Something exceptional happened as you got older.

What kinds of older guys are pulling quality women on the regular? The Dan Bilzerians, A List actors, etc. The kinds of guys who are in the top tier of men and have loose morals, did not settle down into an LTR or marriage. Those men are very few far and in-between, most men will hit their 30s bitter, angry, cynical, and unwilling to change. Now this is why it is so rare to find that kind of an older guy.

So the game does not get easier by any means with age, you just have to put in the work in your thirties on logistics and lifestyle in order to see the benefits.
 

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You have to balance maturity and shared experiences, the more experiences you share with a girl the stronger the bond will be which means less chances of being cheated, replaced or divorce raped.

It takes time to bond and the more experiences a girl has without you, the harder will be for you two to bond and it will take much much more.

Trust me on this, most women my age have more intimacy with their 5 years coworkers than with their 5 years husbands.
Bedroom intimacy? Or just closeness at work?
 
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Bedroom intimacy? Or just closeness at work?
I mean overall bonding, from inside jokes to time spent talking about personal things which is even more true when hubby is just a backup plan for an older woman who had to settle not to be left alone.
 

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I hope, I really hope that I will live long enough to see medicine advance to be able to reverse aging. Can you imagine being 200 years old in a 20 year old body?
 
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