"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Over 1/2 of men say world is female dominated - but why do men take no action?

sharkbeat

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The best way for men to take his throne back is not to complain and ***** about it, but to club women in the head, drag her away, and fvck her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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omkara

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There's a difference between having full awareness of the situation and b.itching. That's an oversimplification that gets way overused.

Most of the people who complain about these threads discussing the meta-issues surrounding gender relations are just anti-intellectual. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but at the same time I don't see the need to act superior and interfere with serious discussions that are going on.
 
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