"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Out at the club: FR
- Thread starter smackahoe
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't know why she said that maybe she is like that as she is ethnic or maybe it is because of how ****ed up I acted. I definetly like her, dont want to get oneitis now.
So what should I do next.. I do not want friendzone and I don't think I should get it. She surely knows me intentions...
Pick of me and her last night...
Appreciate replies..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
anyways, i doubt its ethnic or else she wouldnt of been all over you. Maybe she doesnt like heavy drinkers.
Ask her out on another date, this time with no booze, work your charm and see how it goes.
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
P.S. maybe wear a different shirt next time?? just jokin wit ya
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TONYMONTANA523
Don Juan
But from the sounds of it... the drinking fvcked sh!t up.
Just play it cool next time your w. her. (or at least... don't get smashed)
She's a lil cutie too. (don't mind anyone else's BS)
Spark the same sexual attraction level in her next time.
But maybe be a lil more laid back. Get her riled... then lean back.
Make her want to continue.
My guess is... you just advanced to quick (being drunk) on a sober girl.
But alls good. You just have to be able to calibrate better next time. And let her chase a little. Whether that be through her desire, or actions.
GoodSh!t...
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ask her out and find out.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Only uninterest I got was her rejecting the hook up... Me being turk I finanlly found a turk chick that is decent 2. ehhe...
One thing she said when i was kissing her on the cheeks was " why are you kissing me" what does that mean?? I replied " Cuz I feel like it"
I am going to ask her out to the mall for tuesdayyy... We shall c what happenz...
Everyone has different rates in looks.. I like the way she looks. Dark hair dark eyes... Not too tall.. Shes ideally my type of looking chicks..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
LegendBoy said:
bro, your turk, haha im persian...we have a lot of jokes about turks
:nervous:
WHy ask for advice if you ultimately ignore it ?? I'd cut contact for a week before even thinking of this one again, calling to soon will hurt you in the long-run. Relax and go find other girls for now or get a side-job mowing lawns
-Cod3r
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Saw her online she started talking to me and shes like the reason I didn't get closer to you that night was I kind of like this other guy.. I am like cool. No prob and i signed off.
I am pretty pissed off.. Now I feel like I lossed out, when I shouldn't have... Too bad for me... I got owned by a bitytchhh!
I guess its all no contact time...
Warboss Alex
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