"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Out at the club: FR
- Thread starter smackahoe
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I don't know why she said that maybe she is like that as she is ethnic or maybe it is because of how ****ed up I acted. I definetly like her, dont want to get oneitis now.
So what should I do next.. I do not want friendzone and I don't think I should get it. She surely knows me intentions...
Pick of me and her last night...
Appreciate replies..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
anyways, i doubt its ethnic or else she wouldnt of been all over you. Maybe she doesnt like heavy drinkers.
Ask her out on another date, this time with no booze, work your charm and see how it goes.
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
P.S. maybe wear a different shirt next time?? just jokin wit ya
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TONYMONTANA523
Don Juan
But from the sounds of it... the drinking fvcked sh!t up.
Just play it cool next time your w. her. (or at least... don't get smashed)
She's a lil cutie too. (don't mind anyone else's BS)
Spark the same sexual attraction level in her next time.
But maybe be a lil more laid back. Get her riled... then lean back.
Make her want to continue.
My guess is... you just advanced to quick (being drunk) on a sober girl.
But alls good. You just have to be able to calibrate better next time. And let her chase a little. Whether that be through her desire, or actions.
GoodSh!t...
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ask her out and find out.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Only uninterest I got was her rejecting the hook up... Me being turk I finanlly found a turk chick that is decent 2. ehhe...
One thing she said when i was kissing her on the cheeks was " why are you kissing me" what does that mean?? I replied " Cuz I feel like it"
I am going to ask her out to the mall for tuesdayyy... We shall c what happenz...
Everyone has different rates in looks.. I like the way she looks. Dark hair dark eyes... Not too tall.. Shes ideally my type of looking chicks..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
LegendBoy said:
bro, your turk, haha im persian...we have a lot of jokes about turks
:nervous:
WHy ask for advice if you ultimately ignore it ?? I'd cut contact for a week before even thinking of this one again, calling to soon will hurt you in the long-run. Relax and go find other girls for now or get a side-job mowing lawns
-Cod3r
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Saw her online she started talking to me and shes like the reason I didn't get closer to you that night was I kind of like this other guy.. I am like cool. No prob and i signed off.
I am pretty pissed off.. Now I feel like I lossed out, when I shouldn't have... Too bad for me... I got owned by a bitytchhh!
I guess its all no contact time...
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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