"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Out at the club: FR
- Thread starter smackahoe
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't know why she said that maybe she is like that as she is ethnic or maybe it is because of how ****ed up I acted. I definetly like her, dont want to get oneitis now.
So what should I do next.. I do not want friendzone and I don't think I should get it. She surely knows me intentions...
Pick of me and her last night...
Appreciate replies..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
anyways, i doubt its ethnic or else she wouldnt of been all over you. Maybe she doesnt like heavy drinkers.
Ask her out on another date, this time with no booze, work your charm and see how it goes.
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
P.S. maybe wear a different shirt next time?? just jokin wit ya
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TONYMONTANA523
Don Juan
But from the sounds of it... the drinking fvcked sh!t up.
Just play it cool next time your w. her. (or at least... don't get smashed)
She's a lil cutie too. (don't mind anyone else's BS)
Spark the same sexual attraction level in her next time.
But maybe be a lil more laid back. Get her riled... then lean back.
Make her want to continue.
My guess is... you just advanced to quick (being drunk) on a sober girl.
But alls good. You just have to be able to calibrate better next time. And let her chase a little. Whether that be through her desire, or actions.
GoodSh!t...
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ask her out and find out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Only uninterest I got was her rejecting the hook up... Me being turk I finanlly found a turk chick that is decent 2. ehhe...
One thing she said when i was kissing her on the cheeks was " why are you kissing me" what does that mean?? I replied " Cuz I feel like it"
I am going to ask her out to the mall for tuesdayyy... We shall c what happenz...
Everyone has different rates in looks.. I like the way she looks. Dark hair dark eyes... Not too tall.. Shes ideally my type of looking chicks..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
LegendBoy said:
bro, your turk, haha im persian...we have a lot of jokes about turks
:nervous:
WHy ask for advice if you ultimately ignore it ?? I'd cut contact for a week before even thinking of this one again, calling to soon will hurt you in the long-run. Relax and go find other girls for now or get a side-job mowing lawns
-Cod3r
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Saw her online she started talking to me and shes like the reason I didn't get closer to you that night was I kind of like this other guy.. I am like cool. No prob and i signed off.
I am pretty pissed off.. Now I feel like I lossed out, when I shouldn't have... Too bad for me... I got owned by a bitytchhh!
I guess its all no contact time...
Warboss Alex
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