"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Out at the club: FR
- Thread starter smackahoe
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know why she said that maybe she is like that as she is ethnic or maybe it is because of how ****ed up I acted. I definetly like her, dont want to get oneitis now.
So what should I do next.. I do not want friendzone and I don't think I should get it. She surely knows me intentions...
Pick of me and her last night...
Appreciate replies..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
anyways, i doubt its ethnic or else she wouldnt of been all over you. Maybe she doesnt like heavy drinkers.
Ask her out on another date, this time with no booze, work your charm and see how it goes.
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
P.S. maybe wear a different shirt next time?? just jokin wit ya
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TONYMONTANA523
Don Juan
But from the sounds of it... the drinking fvcked sh!t up.
Just play it cool next time your w. her. (or at least... don't get smashed)
She's a lil cutie too. (don't mind anyone else's BS)
Spark the same sexual attraction level in her next time.
But maybe be a lil more laid back. Get her riled... then lean back.
Make her want to continue.
My guess is... you just advanced to quick (being drunk) on a sober girl.
But alls good. You just have to be able to calibrate better next time. And let her chase a little. Whether that be through her desire, or actions.
GoodSh!t...
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ask her out and find out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Only uninterest I got was her rejecting the hook up... Me being turk I finanlly found a turk chick that is decent 2. ehhe...
One thing she said when i was kissing her on the cheeks was " why are you kissing me" what does that mean?? I replied " Cuz I feel like it"
I am going to ask her out to the mall for tuesdayyy... We shall c what happenz...
Everyone has different rates in looks.. I like the way she looks. Dark hair dark eyes... Not too tall.. Shes ideally my type of looking chicks..
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
LegendBoy said:
bro, your turk, haha im persian...we have a lot of jokes about turks
:nervous:
WHy ask for advice if you ultimately ignore it ?? I'd cut contact for a week before even thinking of this one again, calling to soon will hurt you in the long-run. Relax and go find other girls for now or get a side-job mowing lawns
-Cod3r
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Saw her online she started talking to me and shes like the reason I didn't get closer to you that night was I kind of like this other guy.. I am like cool. No prob and i signed off.
I am pretty pissed off.. Now I feel like I lossed out, when I shouldn't have... Too bad for me... I got owned by a bitytchhh!
I guess its all no contact time...
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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