RickTheToad
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Yep, but she readjusted and she was very wet, so I guess we went a bit too deep ;'pYes things shift and it opens up as shes aroused.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yep, but she readjusted and she was very wet, so I guess we went a bit too deep ;'pYes things shift and it opens up as shes aroused.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not true. A tiny one had the biggest cavern of all.You wanna know how ''deep'' she is?
Look at her feets
Is there really a skill to the actual penetration, though?its the motion of the ocean.....
You said it yourself, t's the entirety of the act. There will always be women who just want to get banged, and there will always be men who arent well skilled with their c0ck - like literally, just bad lays, havent learned any technique, etc. Those are the basic definitions of 'motion of the ocean'Is there really a skill to the actual penetration, though?
I always have 'sex talk' with girls I've banged, and it sounds like all guys basically bang teh same when it comes to the actual penetration.
The only difference in how it feels to her depends on how big his junk is.
If you read womens posts on reddit, they kind of confirm this. When it comes to being 'good in bed' they NEVER mention the way he actuallly bangs her in terms of penetration. 'motion of the ocean' etc. It's always weird things like eye contact and dominance or about how he eats *****.
Like, we can't make our ****s spin around like helicoptors, can we. In-out, at different speeds and angles (based on position) It's pretty simple stuff!! I'm not sure 'skill' or being good in bed is even a thing when it comes to actual penetration lol
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I guess i'm struggling too imagine this. I feel like there's zero skill/technique involved in actual banging (not talking about eye contact, creating connection, foreplay, dominance etc)there will always be men who arent well skilled with their c0ck - like literally, just bad lays, havent learned any technique, etc.
all jack hammer, no buenoI guess i'm struggling too imagine this. I feel like there's zero skill/technique involved in actual banging (not talking about eye contact, creating connection, foreplay, dominance etc)
Its about the connection, the lust, the energy.all jack hammer, no bueno
finishing without worrying about her, no bueno
any technique that he chases to please him first, without worrying about her, no bueno
Imagine seeing a dude dancing with the worst dance moves on the dance floor, then imagine that same dude being awkward like that in bed. It happens!
It's definitely a good sign you cant imagine what it means to have poor technique in bed!
Thats how they get addicted to one guy and another it was just sex.Its about the connection, the lust, the energy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not everyone woman likes the same thing obviously. I've had some women tell me I've been their best and some who didnt comment anything. It comes down to the act as a whole.I guess i'm struggling too imagine this. I feel like there's zero skill/technique involved in actual banging (not talking about eye contact, creating connection, foreplay, dominance etc)