"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oral sex v. regular sex

Which is more enjoyable for the woman?

  • penetration

    Votes: 18 54.5%
  • cunnilingus

    Votes: 12 36.4%
  • same

    Votes: 3 9.1%

  • Total voters
    33

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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Regular sex by far. Oral sex is nothing but the appetizer for the main meal.
 

Cinamon

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I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
 

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Cinamon said:
I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
 

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
You must be looking in the wrong place. I have found a few.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zarky said:
Shouldn't the OP be asking WOMEN this question?
well if we ask women then there have been polls conducted already that say something like ~70% of women can orgasm from cunnilingus but only ~15% can orgasm from penetration

I will personally take these statistics to be true -- the question that remains is whether a ****oral orgasm differs from a vaginal orgasm.

Does it make sense that women have both a g-spot and the ****oris? or is the g-spot merely an extension of the same pleasure sensory nerve bundle?
 

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anal is just gross.. i was kinda tricked into it.. had the girl against the wall and she grabbed my dik and put it in her ass.. i thought it was tighter cause of her legs not spread but then it started to smell... that was fuked. even if it didnt smell.. gross. normal sex over anal anyday.
 

Cinamon

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.

I enjoy it, but none of the guys i tried it with were particularly well equiped.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chance said:
you anal ***** cinamon :)
Its not my fault the girl you tried it with had poor hygiene standards, dont let that one experience put you off :nono:
 

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That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
thats such perfect answer, basically covers all the aspects and it makes a lot of sense! thanks for this insight.
 
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