"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oral sex v. regular sex

Which is more enjoyable for the woman?

  • penetration

    Votes: 18 54.5%
  • cunnilingus

    Votes: 12 36.4%
  • same

    Votes: 3 9.1%

  • Total voters
    33

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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War Against Betaism

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Regular sex by far. Oral sex is nothing but the appetizer for the main meal.
 

Cinamon

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I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
 

morepoonplease

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Cinamon said:
I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
 

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
You must be looking in the wrong place. I have found a few.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dj_china

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Zarky said:
Shouldn't the OP be asking WOMEN this question?
well if we ask women then there have been polls conducted already that say something like ~70% of women can orgasm from cunnilingus but only ~15% can orgasm from penetration

I will personally take these statistics to be true -- the question that remains is whether a ****oral orgasm differs from a vaginal orgasm.

Does it make sense that women have both a g-spot and the ****oris? or is the g-spot merely an extension of the same pleasure sensory nerve bundle?
 

chance

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anal is just gross.. i was kinda tricked into it.. had the girl against the wall and she grabbed my dik and put it in her ass.. i thought it was tighter cause of her legs not spread but then it started to smell... that was fuked. even if it didnt smell.. gross. normal sex over anal anyday.
 

Cinamon

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.

I enjoy it, but none of the guys i tried it with were particularly well equiped.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cinamon

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chance said:
you anal ***** cinamon :)
Its not my fault the girl you tried it with had poor hygiene standards, dont let that one experience put you off :nono:
 

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That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
thats such perfect answer, basically covers all the aspects and it makes a lot of sense! thanks for this insight.
 
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