"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oral sex v. regular sex

Which is more enjoyable for the woman?

  • penetration

    Votes: 18 54.5%
  • cunnilingus

    Votes: 12 36.4%
  • same

    Votes: 3 9.1%

  • Total voters
    33

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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War Against Betaism

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Regular sex by far. Oral sex is nothing but the appetizer for the main meal.
 

Cinamon

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I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
 

morepoonplease

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Cinamon said:
I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
 

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
You must be looking in the wrong place. I have found a few.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zarky said:
Shouldn't the OP be asking WOMEN this question?
well if we ask women then there have been polls conducted already that say something like ~70% of women can orgasm from cunnilingus but only ~15% can orgasm from penetration

I will personally take these statistics to be true -- the question that remains is whether a ****oral orgasm differs from a vaginal orgasm.

Does it make sense that women have both a g-spot and the ****oris? or is the g-spot merely an extension of the same pleasure sensory nerve bundle?
 

chance

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anal is just gross.. i was kinda tricked into it.. had the girl against the wall and she grabbed my dik and put it in her ass.. i thought it was tighter cause of her legs not spread but then it started to smell... that was fuked. even if it didnt smell.. gross. normal sex over anal anyday.
 

Cinamon

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.

I enjoy it, but none of the guys i tried it with were particularly well equiped.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chance said:
you anal ***** cinamon :)
Its not my fault the girl you tried it with had poor hygiene standards, dont let that one experience put you off :nono:
 

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That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
thats such perfect answer, basically covers all the aspects and it makes a lot of sense! thanks for this insight.
 
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