"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oral sex v. regular sex

Which is more enjoyable for the woman?

  • penetration

    Votes: 18 54.5%
  • cunnilingus

    Votes: 12 36.4%
  • same

    Votes: 3 9.1%

  • Total voters
    33

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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Regular sex by far. Oral sex is nothing but the appetizer for the main meal.
 

Cinamon

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I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
 

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Cinamon said:
I'm just curious why you didnt put Anal up there, by far the most enjoyable, but actually, that would fall in the penetration category i guess.
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
 

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.
You must be looking in the wrong place. I have found a few.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zarky said:
Shouldn't the OP be asking WOMEN this question?
well if we ask women then there have been polls conducted already that say something like ~70% of women can orgasm from cunnilingus but only ~15% can orgasm from penetration

I will personally take these statistics to be true -- the question that remains is whether a ****oral orgasm differs from a vaginal orgasm.

Does it make sense that women have both a g-spot and the ****oris? or is the g-spot merely an extension of the same pleasure sensory nerve bundle?
 

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anal is just gross.. i was kinda tricked into it.. had the girl against the wall and she grabbed my dik and put it in her ass.. i thought it was tighter cause of her legs not spread but then it started to smell... that was fuked. even if it didnt smell.. gross. normal sex over anal anyday.
 

Cinamon

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morepoonplease said:
i've yet to find a woman who enjoys anal.

I enjoy it, but none of the guys i tried it with were particularly well equiped.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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chance said:
you anal ***** cinamon :)
Its not my fault the girl you tried it with had poor hygiene standards, dont let that one experience put you off :nono:
 

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That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
That's so hard to choose. I'd be tempted to say oral because I love love love it. I've had the best orgasms from oral. Oral feels better but then sex is sex, it's so good. Because it's not always about what just feels the best, it's all the other elements to it. My best ever orgasms have come from me alone, but I'd much rather have sex and a normal orgasm than masturbate and have an amazing one.
thats such perfect answer, basically covers all the aspects and it makes a lot of sense! thanks for this insight.
 
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