"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Charm&Style

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i have never wore a condom when receiving oral, but i have also never had any sexual activity done with a girl that i would be suspicious of having any sort of STD
 

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If you wear a condom while getting a BJ you can't feel anything. All you can really do is try your best to look at her face and make sure she has no cold sores.
 

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If it's some girl that you just met at a bar or a party, wrap it up. You don't want to take chances. There's no cure for Herpes and various other STDs. Is a lifetime of disease something you'd want to risk for a little head?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Apocalypse Now

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I have never worn a condom while receiving oral, and I don't see the point. You wouldn't be able to feel much of anything, and the taste would be terrible for her (unless you get some of those flavored kind).

I'll take the risk.
 

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People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.

I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
 

trickz

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Oral with condoms = pointless. The only sensation you feel is warmness.
 

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are you ****ing serious??? wow.....


Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised :(
 

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Sp1kez said:
are you ****ing serious??? wow.....


Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised :(
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous. If it's for medical reasons, that's a whole different story. I'm glad my parents didn't chose to get me circumcised. It's just f*cking stupid to me to cut off a part of the skin of a perfectly normal, functioning d*ck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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magickarl

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Hell no.

You may as well not even get your **** sucked. I honestly have enough trouble getting off while I'm getting a BJ as is (unless the girl is really good, I generally have to jack it off for 20 seconds towards the end and let her finish it in her mouth), if I was wearing a condom I would rather just roll over and go to sleep. Seriously all you are going to feel is some warmth around your ****.

Save the condoms for the *****
 

everywomanshero

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Yea no condom for that, if you get a bacteria then your MD can give you meds for that. The tests are just urine test, they don't stick anything down your weener lol so it's no big deal. I wpuld get tested for gonoreah and claymedia yearly and forget about condoms except for going in the vag
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Bible_Belt said:
People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.

I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
I agree.
 

Truman181

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snowdog said:
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous.
Where is "here"?

It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snowdog

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Truman181 said:
Where is "here"?

It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.

Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
 

Truman181

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snowdog said:
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.

Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.

An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
 

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Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.

As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.
 

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Truman181 said:
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.

An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
Lol. If you don't have anything to contribute get the hell out of my thread, b*tch. You got something to prove? You obviously fail.

Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.

As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.

Good points, haha.
 

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It is very possible to get hepatitis, herpes, chlamydia and even aids via oral sex. Whoever argues against wearing a condom for the sake of little pleasure is a retard, to put it mildly. Giving advice like that is dangerous.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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