When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous. If it's for medical reasons, that's a whole different story. I'm glad my parents didn't chose to get me circumcised. It's just f*cking stupid to me to cut off a part of the skin of a perfectly normal, functioning d*ck.Sp1kez said:are you ****ing serious??? wow.....
Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I agree.Bible_Belt said:People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.
I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
Where is "here"?snowdog said:Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.Truman181 said:Where is "here"?
It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.snowdog said:Pretty much everywhere in Europe.
Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
Lol. If you don't have anything to contribute get the hell out of my thread, b*tch. You got something to prove? You obviously fail.Truman181 said:Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.
An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.
As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.