Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Charm&Style

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i have never wore a condom when receiving oral, but i have also never had any sexual activity done with a girl that i would be suspicious of having any sort of STD
 

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If you wear a condom while getting a BJ you can't feel anything. All you can really do is try your best to look at her face and make sure she has no cold sores.
 

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If it's some girl that you just met at a bar or a party, wrap it up. You don't want to take chances. There's no cure for Herpes and various other STDs. Is a lifetime of disease something you'd want to risk for a little head?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have never worn a condom while receiving oral, and I don't see the point. You wouldn't be able to feel much of anything, and the taste would be terrible for her (unless you get some of those flavored kind).

I'll take the risk.
 

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People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.

I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
 

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Oral with condoms = pointless. The only sensation you feel is warmness.
 

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are you ****ing serious??? wow.....


Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised :(
 

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Sp1kez said:
are you ****ing serious??? wow.....


Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised :(
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous. If it's for medical reasons, that's a whole different story. I'm glad my parents didn't chose to get me circumcised. It's just f*cking stupid to me to cut off a part of the skin of a perfectly normal, functioning d*ck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell no.

You may as well not even get your **** sucked. I honestly have enough trouble getting off while I'm getting a BJ as is (unless the girl is really good, I generally have to jack it off for 20 seconds towards the end and let her finish it in her mouth), if I was wearing a condom I would rather just roll over and go to sleep. Seriously all you are going to feel is some warmth around your ****.

Save the condoms for the *****
 

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Yea no condom for that, if you get a bacteria then your MD can give you meds for that. The tests are just urine test, they don't stick anything down your weener lol so it's no big deal. I wpuld get tested for gonoreah and claymedia yearly and forget about condoms except for going in the vag
 

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Bible_Belt said:
People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.

I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
I agree.
 

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snowdog said:
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous.
Where is "here"?

It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Truman181 said:
Where is "here"?

It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.

Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
 

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snowdog said:
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.

Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.

An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
 

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Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.

As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.
 

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Truman181 said:
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.

An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
Lol. If you don't have anything to contribute get the hell out of my thread, b*tch. You got something to prove? You obviously fail.

Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.

As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.

Good points, haha.
 

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It is very possible to get hepatitis, herpes, chlamydia and even aids via oral sex. Whoever argues against wearing a condom for the sake of little pleasure is a retard, to put it mildly. Giving advice like that is dangerous.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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