She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous. If it's for medical reasons, that's a whole different story. I'm glad my parents didn't chose to get me circumcised. It's just f*cking stupid to me to cut off a part of the skin of a perfectly normal, functioning d*ck.Sp1kez said:are you ****ing serious??? wow.....
Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I agree.Bible_Belt said:People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.
I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
Where is "here"?snowdog said:Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.Truman181 said:Where is "here"?
It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.snowdog said:Pretty much everywhere in Europe.
Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
Lol. If you don't have anything to contribute get the hell out of my thread, b*tch. You got something to prove? You obviously fail.Truman181 said:Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.
An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.
As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.