You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous. If it's for medical reasons, that's a whole different story. I'm glad my parents didn't chose to get me circumcised. It's just f*cking stupid to me to cut off a part of the skin of a perfectly normal, functioning d*ck.Sp1kez said:are you ****ing serious??? wow.....
Now I do have to say, some girls do get kinda grossed out if you're uncircumcised![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I agree.Bible_Belt said:People use condoms for oral sex? I had only heard of hookers doing that.
I agree that it is pointless, but that is pretty much how I feel about condoms in general. To me, it is worth it to have a ltr with someone I trust so that I don't have to use a condom.
Where is "here"?snowdog said:Almost no one is circumcised here. It's really an American thing/religion thing, and I think it's ridiculous.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Pretty much everywhere in Europe.Truman181 said:Where is "here"?
It's ridiculous NOT to be circumcised. I can't imagine any woman wanting to go near a **** that was uncut.
Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.snowdog said:Pretty much everywhere in Europe.
Seriously. Didn't it ever occur to you that it's f*cking stupid to cut in a d*ck that's perfectly fine? Just because it's the norm around where you live, doesn't mean it makes sense. A circumcised d*ck looks stupid and unnatural. It's easy to keep it clean down there if you practice proper hygene.
Lol. If you don't have anything to contribute get the hell out of my thread, b*tch. You got something to prove? You obviously fail.Truman181 said:Just because it's normal where you live doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't laughing at you.
An uncircumcised **** looks like something left over from the Neanderthals. Do they have indoor plumbing in Europe nowadays?
Why would use a condom to get a blow? Do you also use a condom on your tongue when you kiss her because you can still get herpes, mono or hep that way.
As long as there's no open sores on your wang or her mouth, just go ahead and give her the real thing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.