"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Optimizing Tinder while visiting city

S

Snag87

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 6, 2019
Messages
610
Reaction score
373
Age
39
I'm a 31 year old black American who's visiting a friend in Novia Scotia for a few weeks. I'm interested in the optimal method for Tinder game.

I am mainly interested in girls ages 18-25 and list my age as 26.


Option #1 is to wait until I arrive in Canada, reset my account and message the matches I'll accrue in the subsequent new account boost. However, given that I'll be in town 14-21 days I'm unsure this is optimal.


Option 2: Is to use my gold membership to set location to Halifax, purchase boosts and accrue mathes. This method is preferable logistically as it saves valuable time building rapport/setting up dates. However, it's obviously less desirable from an economic standpoint.


Opinions and ideas for other methods are welcome!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Von

Von

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2016
Messages
2,189
Reaction score
1,221
Age
37
Snag87 said:
I'm a 31 year old black American who's visiting a friend in Novia Scotia for a few weeks. I'm interested in the optimal method for Tinder game.

I am mainly interested in girls ages 18-25 and list my age as 26.


Option #1 is to wait until I arrive in Canada, reset my account and message the matches I'll accrue in the subsequent new account boost. However, given that I'll be in town 14-21 days I'm unsure this is optimal.


Option 2: Is to use my gold membership to set location to Halifax, purchase boosts and accrue mathes. This method is preferable logistically as it saves valuable time building rapport/setting up dates. However, it's obviously less desirable from an economic standpoint.


Opinions and ideas for other methods are welcome!
Click to expand...
Option 2.

Btw, you'll likely be the only black in the room or entire city... use this golden opportunity
 
backseatjuan

backseatjuan

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2011
Messages
4,441
Reaction score
1,651
Age
45
Location
Россия
Whatever you decide, consider this. It's annoying to have someone from another city two weeks in advance message for a meet up or date. Maximum two days in advance dude, and say you're working.

I would imagine Tinder is not the only thing in Canada. Try several of those as well.
 
Kotaix

Kotaix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2019
Messages
2,236
Reaction score
2,822
Age
48
No one is a prophet in their own land. My experience has been that leaving your location set to your regular city is better just because there are no strings attached, which is kinda what tinder is about. It works all the better if you're in a place that doesn't speak the same language
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top