"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Optimizing Tinder while visiting city

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I'm a 31 year old black American who's visiting a friend in Novia Scotia for a few weeks. I'm interested in the optimal method for Tinder game.

I am mainly interested in girls ages 18-25 and list my age as 26.


Option #1 is to wait until I arrive in Canada, reset my account and message the matches I'll accrue in the subsequent new account boost. However, given that I'll be in town 14-21 days I'm unsure this is optimal.


Option 2: Is to use my gold membership to set location to Halifax, purchase boosts and accrue mathes. This method is preferable logistically as it saves valuable time building rapport/setting up dates. However, it's obviously less desirable from an economic standpoint.


Opinions and ideas for other methods are welcome!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Snag87 said:
I'm a 31 year old black American who's visiting a friend in Novia Scotia for a few weeks. I'm interested in the optimal method for Tinder game.

I am mainly interested in girls ages 18-25 and list my age as 26.


Option #1 is to wait until I arrive in Canada, reset my account and message the matches I'll accrue in the subsequent new account boost. However, given that I'll be in town 14-21 days I'm unsure this is optimal.


Option 2: Is to use my gold membership to set location to Halifax, purchase boosts and accrue mathes. This method is preferable logistically as it saves valuable time building rapport/setting up dates. However, it's obviously less desirable from an economic standpoint.


Opinions and ideas for other methods are welcome!
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Option 2.

Btw, you'll likely be the only black in the room or entire city... use this golden opportunity
 
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Whatever you decide, consider this. It's annoying to have someone from another city two weeks in advance message for a meet up or date. Maximum two days in advance dude, and say you're working.

I would imagine Tinder is not the only thing in Canada. Try several of those as well.
 
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No one is a prophet in their own land. My experience has been that leaving your location set to your regular city is better just because there are no strings attached, which is kinda what tinder is about. It works all the better if you're in a place that doesn't speak the same language
 
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