"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are enough threads around saying what went wrong. Instead I wish to have a thread full of accomplishments and optimism.

I was on a date(day one) recently and was interrupted when I was about to tell a short story. She noticed right away and said "I'm sorry, you were saying?".

I, of course, lost my train of thought. In my AFCs days I would panicked in that situation and dug my self a hole. Instead I was comfortable and recovered. It wasn't even noticeable in the grand scheme of things.

Progress. Tis good.

Whats your story of optimism?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm going to Barcelona with my pals for a vacation! I'm going to the army (which might suck at first but when I come out I'll be in tip-top shape)!
I'm after the army starting to work-out regularly which I'm seeing forward too ALOT! :)
And right now I'm going for a beer with my friend! CIAO!
 
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-got one of the best bj's ever last week, the girl is f#ckin crazy, but she wants me to come over this week.

-i read a lot about approach anxiety on here, but i'm about three and a half weeks in, and it hasn't been an issue yet

-half my friends lost thier jobs or are broke with the current state of the economy(including myself) and somehow we're all remaining optimistic about the whole thing. i hang with some chipper motherf#ckers!!

-i'm meeting new women all the time thanks to the advice on sosuave

- i started running and have already lost a little weight and am feeling great(still working on quitting smoking though)

-i paid my part of my sisters tuition for NYU because my parents couldn'tafford it and was bummed about being broke. then karma came around and one of my buddies in holland won 55,000 euros and is going to fly me out to cabo san lucas for a couple weeks in january, all expenses paid!!

- i literally have no bad news to report, sh!t is lookin up in brownbears world, circumstances be damned

-see sig.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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