"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are enough threads around saying what went wrong. Instead I wish to have a thread full of accomplishments and optimism.

I was on a date(day one) recently and was interrupted when I was about to tell a short story. She noticed right away and said "I'm sorry, you were saying?".

I, of course, lost my train of thought. In my AFCs days I would panicked in that situation and dug my self a hole. Instead I was comfortable and recovered. It wasn't even noticeable in the grand scheme of things.

Progress. Tis good.

Whats your story of optimism?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Perfect10

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I'm going to Barcelona with my pals for a vacation! I'm going to the army (which might suck at first but when I come out I'll be in tip-top shape)!
I'm after the army starting to work-out regularly which I'm seeing forward too ALOT! :)
And right now I'm going for a beer with my friend! CIAO!
 

brownbear.

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-got one of the best bj's ever last week, the girl is f#ckin crazy, but she wants me to come over this week.

-i read a lot about approach anxiety on here, but i'm about three and a half weeks in, and it hasn't been an issue yet

-half my friends lost thier jobs or are broke with the current state of the economy(including myself) and somehow we're all remaining optimistic about the whole thing. i hang with some chipper motherf#ckers!!

-i'm meeting new women all the time thanks to the advice on sosuave

- i started running and have already lost a little weight and am feeling great(still working on quitting smoking though)

-i paid my part of my sisters tuition for NYU because my parents couldn'tafford it and was bummed about being broke. then karma came around and one of my buddies in holland won 55,000 euros and is going to fly me out to cabo san lucas for a couple weeks in january, all expenses paid!!

- i literally have no bad news to report, sh!t is lookin up in brownbears world, circumstances be damned

-see sig.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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