"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There are enough threads around saying what went wrong. Instead I wish to have a thread full of accomplishments and optimism.

I was on a date(day one) recently and was interrupted when I was about to tell a short story. She noticed right away and said "I'm sorry, you were saying?".

I, of course, lost my train of thought. In my AFCs days I would panicked in that situation and dug my self a hole. Instead I was comfortable and recovered. It wasn't even noticeable in the grand scheme of things.

Progress. Tis good.

Whats your story of optimism?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm going to Barcelona with my pals for a vacation! I'm going to the army (which might suck at first but when I come out I'll be in tip-top shape)!
I'm after the army starting to work-out regularly which I'm seeing forward too ALOT! :)
And right now I'm going for a beer with my friend! CIAO!
 
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-got one of the best bj's ever last week, the girl is f#ckin crazy, but she wants me to come over this week.

-i read a lot about approach anxiety on here, but i'm about three and a half weeks in, and it hasn't been an issue yet

-half my friends lost thier jobs or are broke with the current state of the economy(including myself) and somehow we're all remaining optimistic about the whole thing. i hang with some chipper motherf#ckers!!

-i'm meeting new women all the time thanks to the advice on sosuave

- i started running and have already lost a little weight and am feeling great(still working on quitting smoking though)

-i paid my part of my sisters tuition for NYU because my parents couldn'tafford it and was bummed about being broke. then karma came around and one of my buddies in holland won 55,000 euros and is going to fly me out to cabo san lucas for a couple weeks in january, all expenses paid!!

- i literally have no bad news to report, sh!t is lookin up in brownbears world, circumstances be damned

-see sig.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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