"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oprah.com: Ten guys women should run from

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good observations Mr. Me. The wording is definitely framed to demean men in a general fashion.

On related note, if you check out her site, it seems she had a "troubled" relationship with her father, so little doubt on the freudian projection towards men....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Me said:
^^^ to the chagrin of Dentists everywhere...

Oh f@ck! Did I write "those little birds"? Oh, darn... I'm showing my deep resentment harboring on narcissism bordering on emotional disorder, with a pinch of misogyny and a trace of anger.
Ha ha ha ha ! Brilliant quip.

Anyone notice this - as women have become more financially independent and more assertive , their need to blame men and shift reasonsibilty for their failings has NOT diminished . You would think that their new found power would bring with it a corresponding increase in their willingness to shoulder the accountability for their own life journey and the pitfalls along it.
It appears that their newfound "liberation" from the alleged domination of men has not changed their insatiable desire to play the victim. If fact now they have OPRAH to speak for them ( of feed into this desire)
She is merely providing a service to a hungry market. The need is for women to play "victim" and men to assume the role of "perpetrator". Victims are innocent and blameless, perps are evil and scheming and dark, evil rats.
OPRAH found a need in half the population and is filling that need .
Free enterprise in its pure form ,or the mercandising of the new snake oil ?
 
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depressed women

druggie women

bpd women

crazy women

broke women

had sex with 50 guys women
(more like 150)


Those traits from that list all describe a gf of mine, best sex ever. However, that does not make the 'run' advice bad.
 

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Good points on how stereotyping follows from this list, Mr. Me.

Standard issue incorrect inference fodder for logically challenged females and the foolish fellows who want so desperately to impress them.

And ain't it wonderful how the couch-potato chicks' darlings Oprah and Dr. Phil just love to shoot at obvious, easy targets?
 

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what a stupid ******* this pam houston is. her article was vague and her little vignettes werent even humorous or entertaining. what an ass hat...how did she get a job? 200 years ago she would have been left to starve...or atleast work in a field somewhere where her obvious lack of communication skills wouldnt be able to confuse anyone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Numero Uno Guy Women Should Avoid:

Men who actually think. They enjoy a good book and having stimulating intellectual conversation with their buddies and complete strangers in bars. They are perfectly okay with the idea of never being with you and probably may encourage the idea. They know how to manage money and have money in the bank, but they won't give you the PIN number on their debit card. They know the difference between merlot, cabernet savignon, and pinot noir wines, but Valentine's Day is not an officially recognized holiday on their calendar.

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:crackup:

Beautiful Deep Dish, just beautiful!

(though I do like to make the most of any reason to show a deserving woman a good time, including Valentine's Day)
 

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I don't see any difference between this article and Latinoman's thread on this same forum, same page.

Both are about standards, mostly stict, and mostly silly.
 

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Joe The Homophobe said:
So it matters to you if your gf has no money? I don't care about her financial situation as long as im attracted to her.
Think debt load JOE. Credit debt becomes community debt after marriage. Women may consider their college educations a point of pride, but the student loans and credit card debt the vast majority of them end up with after college is epidemic. Combine this with the fact that women have always been the prime consumer demographic in the U.S. and you can see why being wary of a woman in debt is always a good idea.
 

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If you ever decide to get married you better run a credit check on your future wife to be. Don't take her word for it.

I had a friend who had been married for a couple of months and decided to look at a new truck to buy. When the dealership did a credit check on him they said his credit was bad. He was baffled because he knew his credit was good. It turns out his wife had something like $20,000 in debt that she never told him about. He imediatley divorced her before that debt became his. In California I guess there is a 6 month window before your spouses debt becomes yours.

If you don't do your homework you deserve what comes your way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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