"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Opposites attract: Do sexy women actually prefer men with a different hair color and skin color as them?

What is more true?

  • Opposites attract

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So I will start with a hypothetical situation here.

Say you have a guy who fits the mold of tall dark and handsome, in other words a handsome guy with dark hair.

He steps into a room with a lot of good looking women in it, half of them good looking women with dark hair and the other half good looking blondes. What is more likely the case?

Opposites attract meaning the blondes are the ones who are throwing themselves at him and want to sleep with him

Or

Like attracts like meaning the dark haired girls are the ones who want to sleep with him
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Opposites attract for women in particular. Personality too.

I tend to prefer women that look like me with my personality for whatever reason, not sure what that's about.
What made you come to that conclusion?
 

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Umm. Isn't the opposite of a blonde woman, a black dude? Or are us black dudes not even considered in this question?
 

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Umm. Isn't the opposite of a blonde woman, a black dude? Or are us black dudes not even considered in this question?
Minorities are not really considered but I do want to point out that I do see a lot of blondes and redheads with blacks and other minorities, not so much the case with tanned brunettes.
 

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You have a good case and I think about this often.

I am dark haired and dark eyed, and I look Italian/Greek/Portuguese.

Its no coincidence that 4 out of the 5 women I have had back in my apartment were fair haired, fair skinned and mostly light eyes.

70% of women who show interest in me are fair skinned and light eyed.
How have you gone about meeting women and have you approached both types evenly?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The last one I met is in my gym class.

I approach those that give me IOI's, Usually its fair haired and fair eyed women.
You should do an experiment and approach both kinds of hotties to see how it goes.

Are you in the US?
 

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What region if you don't mind me asking?

If you're down for it, I want you to approach 20 girls total that are hot, 10 that have a look similar to yours and 10 that have the opposite look.
 

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Northeast.

You publishing this study?
That might take awhile since I don't do cold approaches
Lol no but I was thinking of doing the same and getting you to do the same too, if we can get more members to do it then it can be good discussion material.
 

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I think it depends on the people. I've noticed some are like that, some are not.
Just a personal preference I guess.
I know I'm sick of blue eyed women, married two. No more, I want lots of variety now :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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