Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Opposites attract: Do sexy women actually prefer men with a different hair color and skin color as them?

What is more true?

  • Opposites attract

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  • Like attracts like

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drakeisfire

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So I will start with a hypothetical situation here.

Say you have a guy who fits the mold of tall dark and handsome, in other words a handsome guy with dark hair.

He steps into a room with a lot of good looking women in it, half of them good looking women with dark hair and the other half good looking blondes. What is more likely the case?

Opposites attract meaning the blondes are the ones who are throwing themselves at him and want to sleep with him

Or

Like attracts like meaning the dark haired girls are the ones who want to sleep with him
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Opposites attract for women in particular. Personality too.

I tend to prefer women that look like me with my personality for whatever reason, not sure what that's about.
What made you come to that conclusion?
 

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Umm. Isn't the opposite of a blonde woman, a black dude? Or are us black dudes not even considered in this question?
 

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Umm. Isn't the opposite of a blonde woman, a black dude? Or are us black dudes not even considered in this question?
Minorities are not really considered but I do want to point out that I do see a lot of blondes and redheads with blacks and other minorities, not so much the case with tanned brunettes.
 

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You have a good case and I think about this often.

I am dark haired and dark eyed, and I look Italian/Greek/Portuguese.

Its no coincidence that 4 out of the 5 women I have had back in my apartment were fair haired, fair skinned and mostly light eyes.

70% of women who show interest in me are fair skinned and light eyed.
How have you gone about meeting women and have you approached both types evenly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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drakeisfire

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The last one I met is in my gym class.

I approach those that give me IOI's, Usually its fair haired and fair eyed women.
You should do an experiment and approach both kinds of hotties to see how it goes.

Are you in the US?
 

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What region if you don't mind me asking?

If you're down for it, I want you to approach 20 girls total that are hot, 10 that have a look similar to yours and 10 that have the opposite look.
 

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Northeast.

You publishing this study?
That might take awhile since I don't do cold approaches
Lol no but I was thinking of doing the same and getting you to do the same too, if we can get more members to do it then it can be good discussion material.
 

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I think it depends on the people. I've noticed some are like that, some are not.
Just a personal preference I guess.
I know I'm sick of blue eyed women, married two. No more, I want lots of variety now :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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