Hey guys Im new to this site and all,I was just wondering what are your opinions on calling girls Hey hun,hey babe,hey darl etc Does this come across as AFC and too nice if so do you guys have any better suggestions to use ? thanks
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Opinions on calling chicks hun/babe etc....
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stick to baby, girls dont like babe and hun isnt even somethin a guy should be saying
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Little nicknames are cute, but certain ones just make you look like half of an old married couple. Stuff like "sugar" or "honey" or "sweetie" just scream out that you like her way more than she likes you.
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
donjuanjovi
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Saying stupid baby names like that makes it look like you're owned. Stick with her name.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
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I've call women that I'm friendly with "baby" in normal conversation out of habit and I have been told by a few they like it. Oh well, if it works run with it! 